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Writer's pictureLuisa Trujillo

You Know You're in a Relationship with an Indian Guy When...

Huh, Indian boyfriends. They are romantic, loyal, and funny. And yes, they wiggle their heads from time to time even if they claim otherwise.


Let's explore what it means to be in a relationship with an Indian guy!


A picture of Aswin and Luisa hugging each other from the side

Spices, Spices Everywhere


When your kitchen becomes a treasure trove of vibrant spices, you know you're dating an Indian guy. From cumin to turmeric, every meal is an explosion of flavors. Be prepared for your spice tolerance to skyrocket!





Festivals All Year Round


We also mentioned this in another blog post because it’s so relevant! From Diwali to Pongal, Holi to Eid, there's always a festival to celebrate. The vibrant traditions, delicious food, and joyous celebrations happen all year round.





The Art of Negotiation


How good are you at bargaining? Whether at a local market or a high-end store, your Indian lover probably knows how to get the best deal. I’m always amazed at how my mother-in-law gets so much for such a good price. 





Cricket Mania


Sundays (and sometimes every other day) are dedicated to cricket. Whether it's a local match or an international game, you’ll find your guy glued to the screen, passionately cheering for his team. (And for Aswin, soccer every other day). 





The Sweet Tooth


Indian sweets can be… Well, it's extremely sweet. It comes in all shapes and colors, mostly made from milk. Get ready to be hooked!





Family is Everything


Family gatherings are grand. When you become part of a close-knit family, you’ll experience the warmth, love, and sometimes chaos of large family events. 😅





Multi-lingual Charm


Your guy probably speaks multiple languages, and you'll learn a few phrases in his mother tongue. It’s always fun to impress him with your new linguistic skills.





Delicious Home-Cooked Meals


Cooking skills are on point with an Indian boyfriend or husband! Whether it's a quick chutney or an elaborate biryani, you'll enjoy some of the best home-cooked meals you've ever had. (If he cooks... 👀)





Bollywood Magic


I know! It's not just Bollywood! Whether it’s Kollywood, Tollywood, Mollywood, etc., Indian cinema as a whole has a special place in his heart. Be ready for movie nights filled with crazy plots, dance numbers, and soulful music.





Endless Hospitality


Indian hospitality is legendary. You'll be welcomed with open arms, not just by him but by his friends and family. It’s all about ensuring you feel at home and part of the family. 





Dating an Indian guy/girl is a beautiful journey filled with rich culture, delicious food, and everlasting romanticism.


Enjoy every moment, and get ready for the adventure of a lifetime!



About the Author

Luisa Trujillo is one half of Masala. She's a dreamer, believer, and achiever from a cozy coffee farm in Risaralda, Colombia. Being in an intercultural and interreligious relationship with an Indian 16,000 km away since 2019, she has gained a fair bit of insight into love, travel, and culture.


In her other life, Luisa has been a Coffee Grower, Digital Marketer, English as a Foreign Language Teacher, and Translator with a bachelor's degree in Modern Languages. Thanks to the latter, she is now fluent in Spanish, English, and French and has basic knowledge of Portuguese, Japanese, and Russian.


Relationships, coffee, languages, and a thousand miles later, she decided to start a community online to share her experience through Masala of Cultures along with her other half, Aswin.


Luisa's insights can also be found on other parts of the internet, including NVCC.


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